Heck, I would not mind a 60 year old dating a 12 year old. as long as they were both happy. (reply to FauxLo) posted 18-Jan-2006 3:24am . Is it different if the 18 year old is male & the 30 year old a woman as opposed to vice versa? . a simular conversation with a friend of mine who is female, and 18.